Lying Ex-Lovers


The Revenge Guy
Ex-Lovers
And Cheaters
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Deception.

That is the hallmark of a truly evil person. Now, of course I'm not talking about the type of people that I advise.

When you're done wrong you deserve closure, even if it's just emailing me for a little consolation.

Maybe marriage (and living together) should have a 3 year cooling off period. Then, after three years if things aren't working out the guy can say "Well, it's been nice, but my girlfriends have been complaining about the amount of time I spend over here" and just end the marriage nice and cleanly.

But when you've been dating a person and it turn's out they're cheating on their wife or husband and you didn't know, well there's really only one thing to do. Read on to see what that is.


Cheaters and a Reconciliation


Hi RG


1. Six months ago my husband's best friend was dying of cancer. While he was dying my husband and his friends wife began an affair and my husband left me for her (the widow).

2. She was a friend of mine.

3. We knew each other for 3-4 years

4. A few but not many at all

5. I have her address and e-mail

6. Not a neighbor complaint

7. My husband and I have reconciled but she will not back off trying to ruin our lives.

8. I am absolutely lost about what the best revenge is. Some kind of public humiliation seems right though.

9. I have found peace in everything except knowing that she feels no remorse over what she did to my family. In fact she is cruel. My life was turned upside down and she is walking away unscathed.

Revenge JokerHi Anon,
Your husband owes you big time. Make him pay until you forget about "her".

Public humiliation? She was in an affair. Any type of public acknowledgement will come back and bite you in the ass.

Marriage counselling. You need to trust your husband again and you're not there yet.

Revenge?
Use a spoofer and call up her friends as if you were a private investigator, change the caller id appropriately. Ask "the questions" about her and other
possible affairs and entanglements.

You're welcome!

RG



Hi RG
I was with a guy I knew from work and we got to dating.

He had split up with his wife for 2 years, did not wear his wedding band and lived in his own house. I asked him if he still had hang ups about his wife and he said no.

All through our time together which was for 6 months he hid me away, never met my friends, family and I never met his.

He was frightened at the thought of anyone seeing us which I did comment on and tried to finish with him quite a few times but we did not. I did not want his children to find out about us through a third party so he was going to tell them on his terms at his house. They got upset but he could not handle it and he changed after that towards me.

We split up at the time my mother died and was not there for me even as a friend and he said he was not ready for me to be his partner and I was wondering what was I to him for 6 months??

I know all through his marriage he has been cheating on his wife and the only reason he left was cause he had an affair, moved in with this girl who was married, his wife did not even know. Her husband found out and told his wife and the children got very upset as she was shouting in front of them when her husband got home.

I knew this and this is why I wanted the children told when I was seeing him as not to cause any more shocks and pain for them at least.

I see the picture now as I think he just used me for sex as that is one of the reasons why he cheats on his wife he does not want her he stays for the kids or so he says.

I lost a lot of weight through my mum dying and him not being there for me as a friend, I feel used and I know he has gone back with his wife.

I would like revenge but I do not want to upset the children and I know he is going to cheat again and again as he has done.

How can I get him back as I want to just deck him at the moment. He has a good job and they all think he is fab but I think he is a gutless man.
Help xx

Revenge JokerHi XX,
Yes, this ass is the lowest form of life.

There is a special place in hell for guys like this and this is how you create it:

You know where he works, using spoofer you can "spoof" his work with calls from a lot of different girls, lots of different caller Id's to hide where you are. the calls can't be traced. Keep them "general rated" but make it apparent that he's dating a lot of women. This will ruin his work reputation.

I don't suggest calling his house like that, his wife is already in cheater's hell and the kids must be a mess too, no sense making that
any worse, even of you could.

If you know places that he goes, for dinner, a bar he hangs out at, a gym he goes to, places he tries to pick up women, do the same. Leave messages for him everywhere. He'll soon get the bum's rush and be barred from these places too.

Do it. Without remorse and without spite.
But do it.

RG



Dear
Revenge Guy,

You seem like a level-headed person–which I need right now.

My husband had a two-year on-and-off affair with a woman he met at a religious center. I outed him three times by breaking into their emails, etc.

He finally broke it off entirely. I've continued to audit her email to make sure there's nothing going on, and there doesn't appear to be, but she continues to entice men both married and single–to feed her ego problems.

This woman plays men like fools and always has two of three that she's stringing along.

My immediate problem is that my husband has returned to the religious center–against my wishes, and I'm afraid the other woman will show up. He claims that she's the last person he'd want to see, but I still don't want her anywhere near him.

Do you have ideas of ways to keep her or him away from the center? I've tried to think up a variety of ideas, including asking someone to send my husband an anonymous email saying that there were rumors circulating at the center about the affair. He'd be so embarrassed that he'd never go back.

However, I have no one I feel right asking to do this.

I also anonymously emailed a member of the center and asked if she'd agree to report back if she saw any interaction between the two of them. She refused.
So, do you have any ideas????
Thanks.
Cindy-Lee

Revenge JokerHi
Cindy-Lee,

You must be very forgiving of your husband. Personally I would have taken one of his thumbs as payment.

As far as getting someone to check up on them by asking 'anonymously', well that never works. I suggest one of two things:

1. Talk to someone in person to watch what's going on, someone you can trust. The worse that can happen is you put your husband and this tramp on alert that you are watching.

2. Start going to the religious center with him. Stop lurking in the shadows.

If you still feel that you can't trust him (and who's blame you?) kick him out once and for all. Never live with distrust in your heart… take the bull by the horns and all that crap.

You don't need to go after this woman, she's digging her own grave. Of course, sharing some straight words with the clergy, now there's a great idea. They should be made aware of this "wolf in sheep's clothing" if indeed that is what your husband is.

You have to remember, that church-going people tend to be very trusting, and fraudsters and cheaters like that type of victim… even if the other lady isn't consenting to more than prayer, you husband sounds like he has other things on his mind.
Best wishes,
RG



Dear
Revenge Guy

My ex and I got back together briefly, and then he dumped me for the woman he was with while we were apart.

She wouldn’t take him back if there had been anything between us. I told her the truth.

Now my ex is telling everyone who will listen that I’m a crazy obsessed psycho (which I’m not) and that nothing happened. Is it illegal for me to snail mail copies of his "I love you" emails to her and a few of his friends? Thanks a bunch!

Revenge JokerHi,
Hey, they are letters addressed to you, they are in your possession, do with them what you want.

Personally, I’d scan them and create a website to post them, rather than sending copies around.

The Internet never forgets!!

Best wishes,
RG



Dear
Revenge Guy

I wish the events I am about to tell you were fabricated or at least enhanced, but if anything, they are understated. I need your help…

Last year I dated this guy who I probably shouldn’t have dated in the first place and probably no woman should ever date him. For the first part of the relationship I was away at college, about a 45 minute drive from where said boyfriend, lets call him Assforface,
lived.
Well Assforface didn’t have a car (or license for that matter) and couldn’t come visit me that often, plus my schedule was really demanding and I couldn’t always go visit him. He bitched about this a lot, always saying how hard it was on him etc, etc, etc, it was always about how things affected HIM meanwhile he was the one to who wanted to date me in the first place knowing very well I was going to be at school. I was suspicious of his actions during this time a lot because I was warned (after I started dating him) that he had a tendency to be a flirt and had a history of cheating.

Time went on and little suspicious things occurred, especially things regarding his ex-gf who he had dated for 3 years prior to me.
Regardless I still went on being the best girlfriend I could be, I stood by him while he was unemployed, my grades suffered because I took every free chance I got to spend it with him, I learned to cook his favorite meals, I cleaned his room (he lived and still lives in his mom’s basement), he even managed to coerce me to take his clothes to the dry cleaning and I’m not even going to tell you the extent to which I went to please him in the sack. After all this I started to notice that I was getting little to nothing in return.

He lied to me almost constantly, we would never tell me anything about his sexual history, and treated me like a doormat. He never even took me on a single date where he paid, claiming that he was broke, but when the weekend came along he always seemed to have enough money for booze, dvds, and tacky running shoes.

Summer came along and with me being back in the city I started to notice how much he would blow me off to go party at clubs with dumb whores. I even caught him once fondling his friend’s breast right in front of me – he was drunk as usual. He promised me that he would stop drinking… one of the many empty and unfulfilled promises he force fed me. Finally after an incidence where Assforface was soooo drunk he nearly crushed me in bed (he was upwards of 280lbs) but thank god he did because if he hadn’t fallen on me I wouldn’t have gotten out of bed and probably would have fallen victim later that night to getting pissed on, yes, the drunk chubby f-ck pissed the goddamn bed. It was around this time I really got fed up and started re-evaluating the whole relationship. The last straw happened a week later when I was so sick, my throat was actually bleeding, and I needed him to do one tiny favor for me and he couldn’t because he "was going out with the boys" which meant he was getting loaded and going to the sleaziest bar in town to hit on whores who wouldn’t want anything to do with him if they weren’t trashed off red bull and vodka. I dumped him before he left to go out, it was pretty epic, I slammed the door and everything.

Somehow this manipulator managed to maintain a friendship with me, and he still talks to me to this day and constantly asks me to hang out with him. I never do obviously. However, I recently got wind of some news from an extremely reliable source that Assforface admitted to sleeping with prostitutes and claiming that he is in fact still in love with his ex-GF, the one he dated before me for three years, therefore making our whole fiasco of a relationship just one, big, fat-ass lie.

Obviously the fact that this man slept with prostitutes, neglected to tell me and put my whole physical well being at risk is more than solid grounds for sweet, devastating revenge. The fact of him still being in love with his ex is just the cherry on top of a heaping pile of bullshit sundae. Needless to say this man needs to pay. Now I could go on talking about how he cries like a little girl on a regular basis about his self image, how he has a small penis, how he pissed the bed, how he has to resort to paying for sex, or how he is so lazy and self centered that he neglected to go see his own father on his deathbed because he "was too tired", but spreading those rumors just makes me look petty and angry. I need revenge that is epic, classy, and puts me on top. Please help.
Sincerely yours,
BitterExforGoodReason

Revenge JokerHi
BitterExforGoodReason,

You certainly paid dearly for a relationship with someone that never cared for you, eh?

Well, revenge of this type is rather straight forward.

He still lives with Mommy? Send her notes that say what her son really does with the money she gives him.
Find his friends online (Facebook, MySpace, etc) and anonymously (a new account for this purpose is needed) post sex tales about their dear fat friend.
Add some skank stories for his ex-gf too.

You’re coming out on top will be the complete shattering of this ass’s life, which will come down like a house of cards.
And should he ever want to talk to you again, just tell him that men of such small girth don’t talk to women like yourself. And lean in and whisper "And you don’t really fit in here, you know."
Best wishes,
RG



Dear
Revenge Guy

I had been living with a man for 7yrs, I was very much in love with him.

We had in the past few years been purchasing things for our wedding when we had extra money. I had bought the dress, decorations and we had already gotten the marriage license.

The end of November he told me he wanted us to go ahead and get married, we started looking for houses and had even been talking with a realtor. I told my friends and family.

December 5th he walked out our door and would not speak to me. Within two weeks he had moved a woman into the house he bought on his own, a woman he worked with on his first shift job.

This has devastated me beyond belief.

We work in the same industry within a 1/4 mile of each other and see and deal with many of the same people. I have know these people for years!

Since he left he has brought her on his job and introduced her to his co-workers which many of them are my friends. He is telling people that the reason we split was because "I" cheated on him, and that I am an abusive alcoholic. Neither is true!!

I have not even been out to eat with a man since he left. This has hurt me more than anything, to know he is trashing me to make his self look like the innocent victim after what he has done to me.

I need all the suggestions you can give me. The hurt is over, it has finally sunk in what he has done to me. I want to make them both miserable. Please help me.
Traci

Revenge JokerHi
Traci,

The man has no excuse for the lies he put you through.
What I’d do is plan a sale of all his things, all the wedding items.
List everything.
Plan the sale for a specific date and do it.
And make sure all your co-workers and friends understand the reason for the sale, how this guy lied to you.

You may not regain some of them as friends, but a lot of them will see this lying bastard for who he really is.

And with the money earned from the sale, take yourself on a much needed holiday.

And after 7 years I know that you know what his biggest fears are. I want you to plan the tragic demise of his ego with care:
There will be a place and a time for you to strike. I like the idea of using SpoofCard to place a call to him from whatever his real fears are. Taxes, licensing, professional duties, whatever it might be.

Make the call, be the badass on the phone.

Just remember to use the ‘disguise your voice’ option and to record the call. I’d love to hear a copy of it.
Best wishes,
RG



Dear
Revenge Guy

My best friend of 11 yrs just cheated on me with my boyfriend of 7 yrs!

In anger I told her family what she had done which she begged me not to do because they would be disgusted with her and they were.

I then waited a week for things to cool down. I rang her because I
needed her to tell me why she did it and say sorry but to my surprise she went off at me and said I was basically the worst thing in the world for telling her family and that she never wanted to speak to me again and told me to get over it! Then she hung up.

Well I was devastated. I was considering to forgive her if she had
she said sorry and explained why she did it with my boyfriend but after that she can go jump!

I need a way to show her she hurt me and that she is in the wrong not me I’m really pissed with her for wrecking my life and not being sorry for it. I want to make her pay! Can you help please?
Distraught

Revenge JokerHi
Distraught,

I’m sure she knows she hurt you. But why keep in contact with her anymore? Don’t let revenge be a way to hold on to hating her. Revenge is a cleansing experience. But don’t let her off scot-free either!

Get a t-shirt made that says “Cheating Slut” on it and send it to her. Make a few more with "Cheating Slut" and her name on them and send them to her family.

And sell everything your boyfriend his to pay for a nice long singles vacation for yourself. It takes two to cheat so I wouldn’t be too quick to forgive him either!
Best wishes,
RG


Dear
Revenge Guy,

I have been taken big time by a guy who claimed to be a friend, lover, future mate, mortgage broker. And he was living with someone and only played up to me because he could talk me into buying a condo and collecting a $16,000 fee which he told me he would give back to me and of course didn’t. In actuality, he is living with someone and told her I was a client, meanwhile he was sleeping with me, and making all these promises and I was gullible enough to believe it.

Since then I contacted his girl friend, posted a website, registered him with the cheaters websites, ordered I don’t know how many magazines, arranged for a republican party at his office, jammed his telephone, with his social security number ordered a credit report and contacted all his creditors to let them know his updated telephone numbers and addresses which caused him to lose his internet connection, posted warnings on all the dating sites, got him kicked off the dating sites, ordered repair persons to his (his girlfriend’s) house, also pizza to his house and office, make reservations at various restaurants, order estimates for various house repairs, many many magazine subscriptions, ordered condoms and tampax and catalogs to house and office. I plan to post his house for rent in various laundromats, send dead roses, place some ads in the classifieds.

I really don’t like this s.o.b. and want more. But it has to be kind of legal. PLEASE send more suggestions. I want to make his life a living hell for a few years. His girlfriend is too dumb to throw him out, even though he’s been screwing everything that holds still enough, which unfortunately includes me. But she even told me that there were credit card charges for brunches and so on on HER credit card, which they obviously share.
Thanks,
Having fun!

Revenge JokerHi
Having fun,

I think you’ve handled everything marvelously.
The only thing I would add is a letter from a lawyer stating he is being sued and brought up on charges of ‘rape by false promise’ by enticing you to use him as an agent and him having sex with you under false pretenses.

Heck, maybe even a real lawyer would be interested in this case.
Or at least a TV judge.

Best wishes,
RG



Dear Revenge Guy,

I LOVE your website and creative (and legal) ideas on retaliation. I have always taken the high road (turned the other cheek) when I have been wronged. Not anymore. I have never gone for revenge before but I AM READY now and need your creative input.

I met "Micah" (not his real name) on a dating website. We met and were immediately hooked on each other. Micah and I shared hours and hours emailing and talking on the phone feeling a closer bond than ever. His career was very demanding, so we only got to spend 3-4 hours together every 10 days or so.

He told me he had been divorced for over 15 years and was a ‘loner.’ I became suspicious of his honesty when he always had excuses for (a) not meeting my family; (b) not introducing me to his friends/family; (c) never had his driver’s license or biz cards with him when I would ask to see them; (d) wasn’t listed in the general directory of employees at the very major O&G company where he ‘allegedly’ worked.

He had made the comment once that his work was his ‘wife’ and I was his ‘mistress.’ I didn’t want to play the ‘mistress’ role anymore, so after several months together, I ended it. Today, I discovered that he is married, and has been for some time. The bastard sucked me into an affair, KNOWING I was seeking a long-term relationship and knowing how I felt about seeing married men. He, not only lied about his marital status, he lied about his last name (I found his ACCURATE last name today, too, when I discovered he had a wife). Now, I know his name, his address to his new home, his place of employment, his cell phone number (work-related one), his AOL email address, and his wife’s name.

RG, I was cheated on in my marriage of 20 years (which ended 5 years ago). Two different women were kind enough to call me at work and tell me that they had seen my husband with this particular woman in public, behaving inappropriately. BOTH of these kind women said they didn’t know me, but knew that if their husband was cheating on them, they would hope someone would tell them and that is why they called. I will always be grateful to those kind women.

I have made it clear that I will have no part in associating with cheating husbands because I believe in honoring other women’s marriages. I feel compelled to contact Micah’s wife and give her hard copy evidence of all the emails we shared (I kept all of them) – some of which are in graphic pornographic detail.

If she doesn’t already know she is married to a lying, cheating, bottom-feeder, she should and I will sleep better at night knowing she can make an informed decision in whether or not to continue her alliance with him. I don’t think there are young children, but WHO KNOWS? So, I don’t want to retaliate in any fashion that will cause emotional hurt to any young children. I just want to make sure she knows of this AND I want him to be so negatively impacted that he will think twice before he pretends to be unattached and seeking a long-term relationship again. Any suggestions?
Thanx,
A-Woman-Scorned

Revenge JokerDear
A Woman Scorned,

I think that revealing what has transpired between you and “Micah” to his wife is the best move.

Whatever lies “Micah” has been using to deceive his wife should be brought into the open.

He is the one responsible for how negatively impacted his kids will be, if there are any. Who knows, maybe they already are aware, in some way, about their philandering father. This is not your fault.

Move forward, clear your conscious and bring all this to the light. Spare his wife any more deception.

Make the right move.
Best wishes,
RG

They Owe Me Money

The Revenge Guy

Friggin' deadbeats.

The trick is easy. Because it's you. Sure, they seemed to be a friend. They were nice but always in some kind of trouble. They never had a good paying job.

Just scraped by. It's a good thing you were there when they were in need of a loan. But you didn't think enough to get them to sign a paper saying you loaned them the money.

Now they won't pay you back. What's a person to do?
Read on….
[RG note: Always, always, get loans in writing!]

When you're a good friend and loan a friend some money, then don't get paid back… ouch! Read on…


Hi Revenge Guy,

Well, I am another person who has gotten screwed….

I loaned a friend of mine 2K almost 3 months ago. I did have him sign a promissory note. He said he would pay me back in 2 weeks. I have several text message from him saying he was going to pay me blah, blah, blah… I have come to realize that he is a con and now I am not sure what to do.

Small claims court is $400.00 (ouch!) His cell phone is no longer working, I just found out that the house he lives/lived in is not even owned by him… Lie after lie….

We do have some of the same friends and I plan on opening the can of worms on him this weekend. I was wondering if I could file a police report on him. I live in New Orleans, LA and If I can file a police report, what good does it do me? I am considering sending my loss to a collection agency as they only take money from what is collected. Please advise…..

Thanks,
Money-bags–not

Revenge JokerHi money-bags–not,
Confrontation only works when the person is afraid of being outed in front of others. So feel free to try it but watch your back! Snakes often try to bite when scared into something they weren't prepared for.

Start with some small talk with your mutual friends, see if they have had similar experiences with him.

Then the outing, say it ;like it's just a thought that popped into your head like "Oh, by the way John, your check is due for the 2k I loaned you… do you have it with you yet?"

No matter what, don't accept any promises, this was his chance to make immediate payment.

Monday, send it to a collection agency. You'll lose more than the $400.00 but you'll be more certain of getting paid.

It's terrible when you help a friend out and do all the right things like getting a promissory note, and you still get screwed. So screw back!
Good luck,
RG


Dear Revenge Guy,
About 10 months ago I lent some friends from out of state $2000.00. The loan was for their mortgage and car payment. The one friend "Tina" I have known for over 10 years. Her new husband "Tommy" was the one that convinced me that they were good for it. And "Tommy" told me he did not want to ask "Tina’s" parents, because it was embarrassing.

"Tina" guaranteed they were good for it. Besides, they own a house in a lake community, have a boat, large screen plasma t.v, both have good jobs, blah blah blah.

So, they kept giving me the runaround forever.

Kept telling me they had checks in the mail, only for me to send off MY bills thinking that I was going to receive their check. Which I never did! And had late fees on bills too.

I’d call and call and call for weeks until one of them would answer and say they were sorry sorry sorry, they have had a bad financial situation and never got my messages. Yea right. I finally decided, enough was enough. I gave them an ultimatum and the time came and passed. What is your suggestion?
Thanks X 1000!
Mike

Revenge JokerHi
Mike,

I certainly hope that you got this loan in writing. Then sue them.
They know to ignore you to easily avoid you, so make a legal case out of this.

If you don’t have the loan in writing now is the time to do it. Or get a recording of them on the phone agreeing to make payments.

Then send them a polite letter with repayment terms spelled out on it. You’re starting over to collect your money, etc…

Get their signatures on it and try to start collecting again.

Once they miss their payments again then you will have a legal basis to sue them and ruin their credit rating, should they have one left. It’s true though, people that make a lot of money spend even more, no savings, nothing to fall back on except for friends that make a lot less but have money in the bank.

Teach them a legal and financial lesson, that is what you must do.

It may mean waiting a little longer for your money, but the option is kissing it goodbye forever.
Not a great choice of options here.
Best wishes,
The Revenge Guy



Dear Revenge Guy,

I’ll tell u the whole story if it means you can give me some direct help!

This past February I was briefly involved with this guy. It was very whirlwind! He convinced me to invest some money… it was $1000. Afterward he said he had a "car accident" and I didn’t hear from him again. I called and called and I finally got him. He told me he was in the hospital. I got soft and felt sorry for him. Then he stopped answering my calls. I got a friend to call and guess what… he called her back (of course I heard).

Anyways, I put in a police report which they said I had to ask for a "demand for payment". I e-mailed this to him because I didn’t know his address (and he doesn’t know my exact one either). He called back and denied the whole thing and said it’s my word against his… I called him several times and it will look like harassment on my part.

I had the receipt of the withdrawal but the police said I can’t prove anything because it was freely given and I did not make him sign a receipt.

So you see revengeguy, I have no other recourse but to plan revenge so that I can get this out of my system and move on!

Help me please to do this in the most effective and final way!

Hey the other information I do have on him is his e-mail, his cell number and his license place number… tell me how I can use these in my revenge!
Thank you in advance!
Cathy

Revenge JokerHi
Cathy,

I feel your anguish!!

First with his email, (don’t do these things from your home/work computer go to your local library or an internet café!) place some online ads for stuff for sale cheap, roommates wanted, gay sex, whatever you can think up.

Include his email, and his cell phone number so he gets a lot of calls.
Put up posters too, around places like grocery stores, wherever they allow public [postings. Create posters of work needed, roommates wanted, whatever you like.
Just keep his cell phone really busy.

After a while, since time has passed already… call him … start off with "Hey, how are you? I’ve been thinking about you (be friendly, that will make him drop his guard) …" and go from there. Casually mention the money you loaned him… all he has to do is agree that he loaned you the money because you can record the call, you now have proof to sue him for the money, have the police take action, everything you need to complete your revenge.

You’ll get your thousand dollars back by his torture and need to change his number!! Or by suing him and having the court take the money from him!!
Best wishes,
The Revenge Guy



Dear Revenge Guy,

How do you get revenge on someone who owes you money, and they know it, but refuse to pay you back?

Thank you!
Jenn

 

Revenge JokerHi Jenn,
The best way is to send them a letter that says PAY ME and add a few dollars to what they owe you.
If they owe you $200.00, in the letter say it’s $500.00
If they owe you $2,000.00 make it $2,800.00

Along with the letter include an envelope that is already addressed to you, complete with stamp. Most people will write back and say it’s not $2,800.00 I owe you, it’s only $2,000.00.
Then you have a legal debtors note that you can use to sue them in court.

Otherwise, hassle them with letters, phone calls, emails, until they somehow respond with an email or recorded message that you can also take to court.

You’ll need to be tricky to get the evidence to sue them, but that’s the right way to go.

Good luck!
Best wishes,
The Revenge Guy


Dear Revenge Guy,
So I am INCREDIBLY angry right now.

I loaned (who I considered a good friend) $3200 in October of this past year because he had just lost his source of income and couldn’t pay his bills and his final month’s rent. We signed a promissory note, and he promised to pay me back in a month (Nov. of 2006.)

Long story short, he continued to jerk me around. He paid $1000 a few months ago, but still owes me $2200. I finally threatened to take him to court and he is supposedly sending me a check tomorrow, plus any late fees, but we’ll have to see about that.

During this 6 month expanse of time, he supposedly didn’t have the money to pay me back, yet still managed to find the money to vacation to not only the Virgin Islands, but Puerto Rico as well… and plans on taking a trip next month to Germany. He also owns a Rolex. He obviously isn’t lacking money, just the decency to pay me back what he owes.

He’s socially awkward but thinks he’s impressive because he has money and uses the internet to meet girls because he lacks the social skills to meet them under normally (face to face.) I want SERIOUS revenge.
Got anything inspirational in mind? :)

Revenge JokerHi,
Honestly, if the next check is bad, head straight away to the courthouse and sue him!

After that, I’m not sure what to do because of the lack of details.
Does he work? Play? Hang out regularly somewhere?
We you romantically linked?

Can you find him online and set up him with a bunch of fake dates?
(Hehe, if you could then I’d have a message waiting for him at the date place saying “Changed my mind about dating you LOSER!”)

Send him a letter seemingly from the Homeland Security Department
saying he’s been placed on the “No Fly List” and they want an interview with him.

You get the idea.
Best wishes,
The Revenge Guy



Dear Revenge Guy,

So here it is:
I help these people out, down on their luck with giving them over 250 man hours of work at $10.00 per hour, move them into a great rental apartment with no security deposit (they have a kid and I felt so bad for them that I paid the deposit), offer them furniture, exercise equipment etc., and give them advice for everything they throw my way.

The owners sell the building they are living in and within 30 days the state comes and checks them out for child abuse and/or drug making. Not sure which, but I was more than surprised. I paid their security deposit for them, with the agreement they would make payments back to me.

Well upon the police jumping their home, they figure I called on them. Mind you, I have nothing to benefit, and truly, don’t think anything is going on. The new owner wanted them out, plain and simple. They had designs on the place. Now, they won’t talk with me – flat out told me to f*** off today, yet they got their security deposit back from the new owner (mind you, I paid it). I want to give it back to them. They know I didn’t do it, they just don’t want to pay the money back. What do you suggest?
Good Gal Made Mad

Revenge JokerDear
Good Gal,

Send them a letter stating that they owe you double the amount. Include an envelope that is already stamped and addressed to you.

When they right back with a letter that says what they really owe you, it’s all the evidence you need to go to court with.

Unless, of course, you already have such a document for the loan you made them.
Take then to small claims court.

Fast!
Best wishes,
The Revenge Guy


Dear Revenge Guy,
Okay, this revenge issue is twofold. Here’s the story. I have a friend, excuse me had a friend who’s name is Fred, and we dated for a while in the past and then I went away to school, but we stayed friends.

I moved back home and we kind of flirted but he was with someone so we just kept it platonic.

Anyway, he owns a liquor store, well he owns one and his family owns several, and he also does work on houses on the side. so anyway I was remodeling my house and I figured that he was the perfect person to do it. He ended up subcontracting the work for my kitchen to a friend of his.

His friend Julian is Hispanic and he did a beautiful job making me custom built oak cabinets. For almost a year I was paying my so-called friend money for the cabinets and nothing seemed to be getting done. Allegedly they were being worked on.

He probably got a total of $2,000 out of me. Then (I sell real estate) I closed a really big deal and decided that I was ready to move into my new house and I asked him how much it would cost in order for my basement to get finished and the kitchen cabinets.

He told me $6,700.00, labor and materials. I gave him the money. $1700 in cash, (Julian, the Hispanic guy allegedly only took cash, which I found out later wasn’t true) and I gave him a cashiers check made out to him ( Fred) for $5,000. Well anyway, a friend of his parents both died a week and a half apart and he went out of town for almost a month total to help his friend. When he came back his mom had heart surgery and one of his employees at his store was out of town so he was working nonstop. So I was trying to be understanding and patient.

Anyway, long story short he picks a fight with literally me for no reason one day and then we stop speaking while he has all my money. The kitchen got almost, almost done and I find out that he gave Julian a thousand dollars and never gave him any more money.

So now Julian is sweating me to pay him and Fred lied to him and told him that I never gave him any money at all. So Julian has a key to Fred’s house and he wanted us to talk to Fred together face to face, so we went over there. Fred lives in this loft above the bar that he owns, anyway, we go in and Fred sees us on the security camera so he refuses to get off the phone and talk to Julian because I am there.

Me and Julian go wait downstairs in the bar and I see that Fred’s car keys are on the other side of the bar out of the security camera’s view, so I take his keys, which go to his truck, the bar, the liquor stores, his kids mom’s house, his parents house, basically his whole life. So he calls me later asking if I have them and I say if he has my money I have his keys, but that he cant have them back until I get my money.

Well, my mom starts pressing me to give the keys back saying that I need to hot piss him off in case he does something to my house or my truck or whatever. So I go to his house and I give him the keys in exchange for a check for 3,000. He was allegedly going to give me the rest later.

And the next morning I go to the bank and the check is no good. So I go to the liquor store and he screams and yells at me and basically says, "fuck me" he’s not paying me.

So I’m sure by now you’re thinking sue him. well, the thing is, I was moving into my new house and I have no idea where my copy of the cashiers check is. I tried to go to the bank and get a copy and from looking through their books with a teller and a manager it appears that a whole batch of cashiers checks are missing including the ones that I wrote around that time. So I have nothing to go to court with.

Now I discussed this entire scenario with my two-faced cousin and I even thought about photo-shopping a new cashiers check and making a copy of it to take to court. (totally illegal I know) anyway, my cousin/ex-best friend has the audacity to call Fred and tell him that I lost the cashiers check. (she’s a slut I think she’s been trying to sleep with him) anyway, so he knows I don’t have the check and all I have is the bad check that he wrote me for $3,000. I looked at the website and I thought that nothing seemed fitting to cover almost $9,000.00 worth of revenge and I don’t have a case that will stand up in court. he has no grass, so I cant spell out thief in it and besides both his house and the liquor store are covered in cameras.

I thought about the coupon thing but their liquor store is like the ghetto type where they make a ton of money but they wouldn’t have the type of customers that would like complain to the BBB or anything they would just gripe and leave.

So now I’m screwed for an idea.
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

Revenge JokerHi,
First off, take a breath.

I’m sure you’ve been sweating this a bit but seriously, you sell real estate and didn’t have a contract with this guy, even if he was a friend?

And you paid him in advance for the whole job after he took a year to finish the first job you gave him to do?

Slow down and let’s get professional about this whole thing, OK?

First off:
You have the $3000.00 bad check.
Sue him over that.

As far as anything else, I’d just create a bunch of 50% off coupons for purchases at XXX liquor store and let him sweat that out.

And from now on, anything that includes any sum of money, get it in writing!!
And put that writing in your safety deposit box right away!
Best wishes,
The Revenge Guy



Hi
RG,

My name is Johnny and I have a long-time friend who’s been owing me quite a lot of money I lent him on several occasions for petrol about six months ago now.

He tells me he can’t afford it at the moment but then he soon spends the amount he owes me, or more, on a new set of brake discs for his car or something.

Quite frankly he’s been a bit of a knob since he got with his whore of a girlfriend anyway, I haven’t seen or heard anything from him for quite a while now and whenever I try getting hold of him he never bothers getting back to me, he only seems to bother with me when he wants something. I need to finally stand up for myself, how can I teach him not to take advantage of me again?

Thanks,
Johnny

Revenge JokerHi
Johnny,

Just stand up for yourself.

The next time you see him hand him a written bill showing all the money he owes you and from when.

Have him sign it.

Then tell him to start paying you apportion of it every week or you’ll take him to small claims court.

To prove your case all you’ll need is the written note you now have.

And then stop taking his calls unless he has cash in hand.
Best wishes,
The Revenge Guy



Dear Revenge Guy,

So I was working at this bed and breakfast on the weekends. It was very very very hard work, I was working 12 hour days with no breaks, and there was only one other employee.

After I had only worked there two weeks, she gave that employee two weekends off in a row, while she was at the hospital tending to a family matter, leaving me all by myself to run her b&b.

After 2 weeks of this and falling behind in my studies, I called on a week day and said, I'm really sorry but the work is just too hard for me and I wont be able to come back.

I called back on payday, she owed me 2 checks, one that she held back the first week, and my last weeks pay. She told me I'm not getting shit from her because I quit and I can go fuck myself.

Well since she paid me under the table, there is no way for me to prove that I worked for her at all. This happened a couple of weeks ago. This lady has a LOT of money by the way, and i worked my ass off for that lil money that she owes me.

To her, it means nothing, to me, it means the world. I literally have to skip school next week because I just don't have the gas money to make it there and back. This happened 2 weeks ago.

She runs a bed and breakfast in weatherford texas called angel's nest
She lives at the bed and breakfast she runs. Her name is Candice Dyer.

Her b&b is named Angel's Nest
The address is 1105 Palo Pinto St. Weatherford, TX 76086
Her business number is (817) 599-9600
Her cell phone number is 817-596-8295

I honestly just want my money back but that's not gonna happen. She has a quick temper and is easily riled. she thinks she is always right and treats customers shitty. I want her to lose lots of business, and I want her to know its because of me, but I don't want her to be able to file any charges on me.

I said a long time ago that I'm never gonna let anyone screw me over again. I have a 3 year old son and this bitch took away from him. I am suffering really bad because of the money that she owes me. it wont improve my LIFE to get revenge on her, but dammit she deserves it.


Revenge JokerHi B&B Worker,

You're right, you're in a bad place. Working for cash means you take the chance that you'll get screwed over for wages if something happened. And something happened.

You've got all the info. Call her and tell her that it would be awful if bad reviews of her place started showing up online. And to pay you or else.

You have the power! (And so do I!)
Best wishes,
RG

Cheating Ex-Lovers

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Cheaters.

The person that you love goes and loves someone else, breaking your
heart. Then you get angry. NOW you want revenge… read on…


The Cheater, The Cheated and the Kid


Hi Revenge Guy,
I am having a problem with my husbands ex.

She has told me
that she has been in love with my husband for 14 years and will do
anything to get him back. They had a 3 month relationship during
2007 and because of her (she was caught flushing her birth control pills and
poking holes in condoms by my hubby's sister) they have a son
together!

We tried to be peaceful with her for the child's sake but
things have gotten extreme!!

We actually had their son living with
us for 5 months because she has no job, no car, and was being
evicted from her apartment. So their son came to live with us and we
have never asked her for anything for him.

After a month of him
living with us she got the child support cancelled but she went
behind our backs and opened a TANF case with social services so
during the time that we had the little boy she was collecting money
from the government and we now have to pay it back. She was also
collecting food stamps, wic, and housing even though we had her son
living with us.

So basically she got all these benefits and money
for a child that didn't live with her and we spent all of our money
on these things for him and now have to pay back what she got for
him while he was living with us! Make sense?

We found out all of
this after I lost my job and needed to apply for food stamps. During
this time she was always holding their son over my husband's head. If
he went 30 minutes without texting this psycho she was texting him
telling him that she was calling the cops and coming to get their
son.

As soon as she said this my husband would smooth it all out
with her so she didn't take their son. After 4 months of all this my
husband decided that he wasn't going to deal with having to kiss her
ass anymore so he went and filed a parenting plan with the court.

Everything was going fine until 3 days before court. She filed a
protection order with a bunch of fake crap on it and got their son
removed from our stable home back into her's.

She has been evicted 3
times from 3 different places in 6 months and is now about to get
evicted again. We let everything go until she cooled off but things
have gotten much worse since then.

She re-opened the child support
case, she tried to get my husband thrown in jail for a false child
abuse charge that she lied about (the social worker saw right
through her so it never made it any where), she has been harassing
us by emails, myspace, facebook, etc., she has been seen driving by
our house to stalk us (she lives 60 miles from our house so it is
obviously out of her way just to drive by our house), she threatened
me, and has posted a bunch of crap about us on myspace and facebook.

We got a restraining order on her and we make it permanent this
week.

Things have been pretty quiet but she still posts crap on the
internet about us and that isn't violating the restraining order
because she makes up fake profiles to do it.

We know it's her but we
cant prove it to get her arrested. What can we do? We would love to
make her life as miserable as she has made ours! Any help would be
great.

Is there a way to make a fake profile and get her thrown in jail for
violating the restraining order? Or could that come back on me?

Please help!!

Revenge Joker - Trademark PendingHi Jade,

I would wait until things settle before trying to destroy her life
any more than she already is doing herself.

Your husband and you are both paying a hefty price for his
infidelity. He owes you BIG.

As far as psycho-mom I would, once things have settled in a couple
of months, get her address and rate some "roommate anted" signs and
post them around her neighborhood. Then I'd take a picture of them
and send it to the welfare office or where ever she's getting her
money for housing from.
Let them deal with her ripping the system off by having a roommate
and not declaring the income.
She will fry.

And do your best to create a stable home for the kid… life will be
hard enough for him knowing his mom is crazy.

And your husband owes you either a big diamond or a long Spanish
holiday. If he needs to pick up cans from the side of the road to
save the money, so be it.

RG



Dear
Revenge Guy,

My girlfriend stabbed me in the back and went
out with my best friend.

I wanna get back at the best friend, though. I’m 17
and he’s 18. Obviously he doesn’t respect the guy code so he should pay.

They went behind my back for 6 months so I was
thinking something kind of big.

He doesn’t have a car, he works for his dad, and he
graduates in a couple of months.

I wanted to do something dramatic, something that
will tear him up inside. Any good ideas? Also, something private that
will only affect him and he won’t know I did it.
Thanks,
Hurting

Revenge Joker - Trademark Pending

Hi Hurting,
Well…

You didn’t give me too much to work with did you? But why just him? I
mean, she cheated on you too, right?

Anyways… for something dramatic, do this:
Create a hotmail or yahoo email. Use something close to the hottest
chick’s name in school.

Use that to talk with him, but tell him that this
“friendship” can’t be made public until after school ends… talk with him
as if you were a hot girl in love.

Lead him on to believe there’s really something
between this girl and him, but it can’t be revealed in school. Email him
love notes, go all out but keep it online.

When he finds out is was not true, and he’s been made a fool, your
revenge will be complete.
Best Wishes, The Revenge Guy



Dear
RG,
This may not be anything you’ve ever heard before but here it
goes:
I am married – I had a friend (female) who I grew very close with.
Her husband and I also grew very close – we had so many things in
common – more than I have with my husband and more than he had with
his wife.

As our friendship became
stronger, so did our feelings about each other – and we had an
affair. I know – you are probably asking how I could do this to my
friend (his wife) – I wish I could answer that…..needless to say
this affair went on for a few months.

It was easy to get away with
because he and I are involved in many activities together – our kids
are the same ago and go to school together, scouts, bowling, guitar,
etc. His wife had a minor surgical procedure back in September and
he and I took her to the hospital (it was a one day stay) and I
stayed with her the entire weekend – cleaned her home, cooked for
her and even took her child to my home for a few days while she
recooperated, so I could get him to school because she was unable
to.

One night, her hubby and I
went bowling and after bowling, we went to eat at a diner. We called
and left her a msg. we were going out to eat. Well, one thing led to
another and we didn’t make it home until 4am! Needless to say, she
was pissed!!!! – but not pissed enough not to accept my hospitality
(cooking & cleaning & running errands for her for the following 4
days).

After 4 days she told me I
was a terrible friend for leaving her that Saturday night until 4am
with her husband. I agreed, and apologized. She did not accept it.

Now I am pissed that she
"used" me for those days while she was recooperating. Now she does
not talk to me and her husband is not allowed to talk to me, when
she is around. The affair is over with this guy, but now we don’t
even have a friendship – and I have to see these people at least
once a week!!

It really sucks – and to top
it off, she is trying to monopolize my other friend which is making
me feel very uncomfortable. I want to get revenge on the "wife" for
using me and revenge on my ex-lover for hurting me and making plans
for our future (including leaving our spouses) and I want to make
them feel uncomfortable for a change.

I know I was wrong for
having the affair with her hubby, but she knew nothing about it and
still knows nothing about it. I would love to tell her about the
affair, but it would jeopardized my marriage and I don’t want to do
that right now…….how can I get back at these people?
Taken for a Ride

Revenge Joker - Trademark PendingHi
Taken for a Ride
,
As far as I can tell, you got off easy.

With sleeping with her
husband and you got stuck with 4 days of cooking and cleaning?
That’s lucky, not spiteful.

But I’m sure she knows that
something else happened. Save yourself and save your marriage.
Let this be.

Redirect your anger to working harder on your marriage and children.

It’s good that the only person you’ve told is me.

Revenge isn’t an option here.
Leave it at that.

But, and there’s always a
but… any revelations will certainly devastate your husband and
family, but what you could do is every so often say something
inappropriate that will cause her to think there is an affair.

Say something about his
behavior, his actions, close things that usually only a wife would
know. These "tips" will drive her into the ground and since the
affair is now dead you’re in the clear.
Best Wishes, The Revenge Guy



Dear
Revenge Guy,
So…. my wife had been cheating on me for over six months…
We’d been together for about 7 years.

Eventually I found out who
she was cheating on me with… someone who was introduced to me as a
friend about 3 or 4 months ago.
These two carried on under my nose, knowing that I fully trust them.
My wife would even go to his apartment, have sexual relations and
even take his roommate’s drugs!

I should also mention that
his family are Mormons and strong believers and from what i
understand, Adultery is a big NO, NO!
After all that b.s. I have been through, I found it in my heart to
forgive her… but that doesn’t mean I forgive HIM!

I talked to several friends
of mine about revenge but it seems their advice wasn’t enough.

I need YOUR help RevengeGuy!
I heard you’re the best in the business!

I want to get him AND his
roommate for letting them have access to his drugs.

I don’t just want to hit….
I WANT TO HIT HARD!!!
Possibly mess with his credit, social life maybe?

I want to mention that I
have his parents phone numbers, his ex-wife number, and several
friends numbers. I also know where he works. Maybe you could tell me
how I can use those
to hit hard!

So far I deflated his tire
… but don’t think that’s quite enough!
Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thank you for your time.
-Mr. Desperate

Revenge Joker - Trademark PendingHi
Mr. Desperate,

You know, my first instinct is to tell you and your wife to get
counseling. She has done a terrible deed and you need to work this
through, since obviously you still have issues there.

Of course, who am I to know, I talk to people all day, every day,
about getting revenge.

You want to hit hard but I have to ask, how hard??

Your wife’s involvement will also be revealed and unless you’re
looking for sympathy and a gold star from everyone that you know
(gold start for keeping her), then I suggest you don’t do much.
Does your wife have to start apologizing for what you did because of
what she did?

Anyways, after all, like I said, who am I?
Just a Revenge type of guy, after all.

All that being said, if the same thing had happened to me (I’ve now
been married just over 7 years), I’d spread the word, somehow, that
the guy has AIDS. If I could I’d get a photo of him, create a poster
and hang it in the bathroom of every place in town. Bar, club, pub,
even drug stores and bus stations if they have public washrooms.

And I’d send gifts to his parent’s place, from his gay lover. Let him
start to explain that one. Strange calls to his work, with stranger
messages left for him.

Leave the car alone. You’d feel truly bad if he had a critical
accident because of what you did and he killed someone else!
That would really suck.

Of course, cutting the battery cable would be OK, especially on a
cold day. Maybe just undo the cable from the battery post, ground
the black one against the body of the car, not the red one!!
And pour some milk down the door frame, and wipe up whatever spills.
The smell of soured milk will never go away.

Anyways like I said, the choices are yours.
Best Wishes, The Revenge Guy



Dear
Revenge Guy,
I really need some ideas!

Well, my mother-in-law and I
have never got along. Me and my husband lived with her for a couple
months at one time. The whole time she would say things like don’t
take a shower together or the tub will fall through, talking about
how she has DD boobs when there really only Bs, and basically just
trying to be better than me.

And she stole $400 from us.
It’s bad enough to steal from me but to steal from her own son?

But what really took the
cake is she came over my mother’s house a couple months ago. My mom
had just gotten out of the hospital where she almost died and she
told my mom that she saw me in town with another guy (this is a lie)
and called me a whore.

This really put stress on my
mom. Well, her husband died 2 months ago and I know for a fact that
she was cheating on him the whole time. She was talking about moving
her lover in a month after her husband died!

If I knew "John’s" last name
or John’s wife’s last name I’d contact his wife and tell her. My
husband even said she needs payback. plz help me. Thanx!

Revenge Joker - Trademark PendingHi,
You sure have a brute as a mother-in-law. She needs a wakeup call,
that not everything is possible for her to manipulate. If she’s
fooling around we can use that against her easily enough.

What I suggest is you have someone call her saying they are from the
local public health agency. "The Agency’s mission is to protect the public through STD awareness
and prevention. As a matter of course they are also responsible for
contacting members of the public that have been identified as being
possibly in contact with someone that has been identified as having
a Sexually Transmitted Disease."

Set up an appointment, a few weeks in advance, and let her worry
about it. Be sure to have the address and phone number so you can
give it to her during the call. She’ll be too worried to call the
place anyways.

Hey, if this guy John is fooling around on his wife with your
mother-in-law no one knows where else he might be getting his
entertainment. If you do get the chance to find out info on him,
another carefully placed call should cause all the chaos your evil
mother-in-law can handle!
Best Wishes, The Revenge Guy



Dear
Revenge Guy,
My friend’s ex is crazy.

In the past he has
physically abused her, broken into her house, stolen her phone, her
laptop, calls her job and tries to get her arrested, calls numbers
on her phone and threatens her friends, takes their kids with him in
the middle of the night when he’s mad at her, even though they have
school in the morning, calls the cops and lies about drugs in her
house, calls CPS to try to get her kids taken away, breaks glass in
her driveway so she backs over it, doesn’t have a job at all, and
has nothing better to do than make her life a living hell.

He currently has her laptop
and cellphone. I saw her myspace and he hacked into that and jacked
it all up. He’s got their kids and tells them lies about her so they
will hate her. He says he will only give her stuff back when she
agrees to marriage counselling.

They’re still married, but
she doesn’t have time or resources to get a divorce, her kids
custody, and a restraining order which she is finding out is very
difficult to obtain.

I was hoping for a way to
get him arrested for sure so she can have time to build a case
against him and also stop him from continuing this behavior since he
would be in jail. We need some really great ideas!

Revenge Joker - Trademark PendingHi,
To get this guy arrested all you need is the evidence.

That’s right. Start putting everything on paper. Calls,
break-and-enters, visits with the kids, everything, date and time,
names of witnesses.

She should also carry around
a digital camera (even a cell-phone camera!) and get pictures of
everything a sit happens. And a voice recorder to record any
confrontations and phone calls.

The revenge you seek is only in the evidence you can collect. It’s
not good to stir the pot with this wacko. Do it legally for now.

Start now!

But do your best to keep the
kids out of involvement with this… they don’t need to be harmed by
what may happen!
Best Wishes, The Revenge Guy



Dear
Revenge Guy,
I’ve been with my husband for twelve years we recently started
having problems, he cheated on me and we went through a long two to
three month on and off again ordeal.

The girl he was cheating
with is only 19 years old and has two kids from two different guys,
she has a history of being “easy”.

Even though she knows he
comes back to me she continues to pursue him and take him back, she
even tries to convince him to leave me and the kids.

Now that I see that he is
trying hard to make a change and move on, she is posting things on
Myspace saying that they are back together and working things out.

I almost got into it with
him over the posting but then I stopped and realized that he
couldn’t have talked to her yesterday because he was with my sister,
nephew and brother in law all day and they all vouched for him.

So she’s obviously lying to
try and break us up. I was afraid of this, that she would get mad
that she was dumped and that she was/is going to continue to do
whatever she can to get back at us/him and make us as miserable as
she is.

What can I do to get her off
my back?

Revenge Joker - Trademark PendingHi,
You’ve been patient far too long.

Send her a registered letter
to back off, record any and all contact attempts she makes and call
the police for a restraining order.

Double check your husband’s
use of the computer, there are plenty of “snooper/key logger”
software you can install on the sly, do it.

And make your husband go out and buy you a big fat diamond ring and
a two week vacation to re-work your marriage.

He’s put you through enough.
Best Wishes, The Revenge Guy


Broke Up My Marriage To Cheat With A Jerk

Hey Revenge Guy,
I'm a 26 year old single mom (recently separated due to this
situation) and I'm about to start dating women after all the
assholes i've sadly dated.

Seriously, men are dogs!!! Or at least the ones I've dated. My
story started about 7 years ago….

I just graduated high school, my mother passed away and I was
starting college. I had a very good guy friend thru school and his
name was Sean. We were always JUST FRIENDS and after a few months of
hanging out we became boyfriend and girlfriend. We moved to San
Diego together. We were together for almost 3 years. When we were in
san Diego I supported him. I was a manager at Nordstrom and he was
doing valet and then he got fired. To make a long story short, we
both moved back to our home town and i decided to end it. I felt
like I was the only ambitious one in the relationship. He acted as
if it was a relief and a burden off
his back.

We have reunited after 6-7 years!!

I was married and S–n decided he wanted to see me. Well, we saw
each other and yes, we slept together!!

We've probably been together 6 or 7 times. I moved out of my
husband's house, with my daughter, because I thought S–n loved me
and I thought he'd grown up a bit.

Turns out he now wants nothing to do with me.

I've broken up my marriage for him and now he wants absolutely
nothing to do
with me. He speaks to me on the phone, but will not see me. WTF!!!!!

I'm soooooo disappointed with myself!!

Was this payback for breaking up with him?? He still lives at
home with his parents for god's sake!! I really feel S–n is the
love of my life, but he's treating me like the shit on the bottom of
his shoe?? I don't understand?? HELP!!!


Revenge Joker - Trademark PendingHi
Susie,

It's hard to get past life's mistakes, but this asshole is one of
them….
STOP calling him, get counselling and try to salvage your marriage
for the sake of your child.

You DON'T need revenge, you need real help.

AND cut off all ties with this jerk SEAN… he wants you for sex,
nothing more… you're too much woman for him and he knows it.

If you MUST call him one more time, tell him you're pregnant and
will be suing for child support… make him sweat for a couple of
months, at least.

Another lesson learned. Sorry you had to learn the hard way that
there are still immature men out there, of all ages. You should have
clued in when he's still living with his parents. He 'might' have
been the love of your life, but that kid died a long time ago to be
replaced with this shallow excuse of a man.

Your revenge?

Get your life back on track and evade this asshole with all your
might.

RG



Dear
Revenge Guy,

In January of 2009 I met this guy at the gym. We started what I
would call a relationship. Around the middle of February 2009 he
starts acting weird, won't text me back won't call me back.

So when I see him at the gym I just ignore him. Finally he calls
me up and says I have something to tell you and I said, "you are
married aren't you?"
He says, no of course not. I said what is going on then? He said he
slipped up and got a girl pregnant and he fills like he has to do
the right thing and marry her. I said okay, but I will support you
in whatever you do.

He sticks to his story and things just are not adding up at all.
Keeps feeding me
bullcrap like, "I wish it were you that were pregnant etc."

Anyways, April of 09 I have this feeling that something weird is
going on. I check the marriage records and sure enough there is his
name with another woman. I found her on Facebook and they of course
in her mind are happily married. I really fell for this guy too.

I confront him and tell him to leave me alone or I will tell his
wife, he tells me that she already knows. So I change my number etc.
Well about a month later
he emails me tells me he misses me.

SO I give him my new number and we start talking again. All the
time…in my mind we were in a relationship. I know it was wrong,
but of course he tells me the typical, "I don't love her," "I wish I
was married to someone like you."

Well in August of 09 we sleep together one time and I got
pregnant. During my pregnancy he is not there for me does not do one
thing for me. Says he tells his wife and family, but he does not
tell them. I have proof that he has not.

So January of 2010 I change my number and stop communicating with
him. He doesn't come after me pretty much walks away.

Well I got an attorney etc. My daughter was born April 29th 2010.
He was served papers by the Sheriff last Friday for paternity and
child support. His wife still does not know neither does his family.

Should I tell his wife and family? She needs to know what kind of
man that she is married too. Thank you,
It's all fun and games until someone gets pregnant.


Revenge Joker - Trademark PendingHi
New-Mom,
I am sure that the lawsuit will reveal all, your job now is
to put your baby first, ahead of all else.

I'm sure the wife knows, you're not the first affair he's had.

Bad decisions alter your life, don't make any worse ones, you're
tied to this guy for the next 18 years, do everything you can to
make sure he pays his child support and does not have cause to try
to take your baby away.
Best wishes,
RG

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