Married Co-Worker Dating Me and Three Other Girls! Help!

Dear Revenge GuyDear Revenge Guy,
I started seeing a higher-up co-worker eight months ago. I know you shouldn’t mix business with pleasure but he went after me and it felt good. Our relationship has escalated to the point where we have had sex multiple times.

I just found out from his phone that not only is he married, but he is having an affair with me and three other women! From the messages I have seen, some of the girls knew that he cheats and asks about the other girls. I want revenge and clever revenge at that. I want to get him and the other girls, and I want to come out on top. How do I do this?


The Revenge GuyHi Dating a Cheater,
You must know an awful lot about this guy. Obviously where he works, home life situation and even the names of the other girls that he’s dating.

You probably know what he’s doing to hide his tracks from the other girls and his wife, like an extra phone, alternate email addresses, etc. This can be used against him easily.
I hope you have some of the other girls names and details from his phone.

Using a service like Spoofcall you could spoof the number of one of the girls, use a different girl’s name, and set up dates for him. He’s expecting to see one girl and sees and meets a different girl. He’ll be squirming heavily.
You could even add his wife into the mix.

I’d like to see his face when he goes to one of these “dates” thinking he’s going to be meeting a girlfriend and it’s his wife that you arranged to send instead!

You could play this out for months!

Have some fun with this, knowing that you’re creating the karma that will make what’s comes around goes around!

Best Wishes, The Revenge Guy
Best Wishes, The Revenge Guy

Stole My Boyfriend

Dear Revenge GuyHi RG,
I’ll try to make this as short and as sweet as possible.

I dated a guy for 4 years, it was very serious. We were in love, I was even there for him when his mother passed away from cancer. He’s a sweet guy, but after some time we decided it was best to take a break (my mother was in rehab and my grandmother was very sick).

We had every intention of getting back together.

After about 2 weeks, he began getting insecure and we fought because of it. As a result we hadn’t spoken for another 2 weeks.

A mutual “friend”, or ex-friend, hooked him up with her sister because he was “moping.” They had sex, I found out, he begged for forgiveness, and I told him to suck it. As of right now we’re just beginning to talk again (as it will be almost a year).

As for this girl, not only did she screw my boyfriend – I know I know, we were on a break- but she got a hold of my number and texted me DETAILED things they did together. She also mentioned how he drove her to the airport (since she lives out of state) and held each other for hours.

She has a son with someone else, she posted pics of her son and his “new daddy” on facebook -yep you guessed it, MY BOYFRIEND. I called her one day, because I simply couldn’t sit by anymore, I just wanted her to leave me alone. She told me I’m nothing but a s*ut and I deserved to die. Even after my boyfriend called her himself to tell her off, she asked him if she was better than me in bed. THIS IS SOMEONE WHO IS SUPPOSED TO BE A MOTHER. Like I said, it’s been almost a year, I’ve been wrestling with myself to take the high road but I just can’t! I obsess over this girl to the point where it’s ruining my life.

Please help, I can’t let her win!

The Revenge GuyHi,
I don’t see you as the loser here at all.

You have so-called friends that seem to choose him over you, without regard for the future you wanted with him. Maybe you we’re clear with them but certainly he made choices that can’t be easily taken back now.

As far as this girl goes, find out who else she has hurt and get together with these people. Someone that burns bridges often leaves a lot of wreckage and getting together to find out more will give you a great direction of how to best get your revenge.

Do your investigating and follow up with sharing her incredibly bad behavior with the world.

Since your friends know what has happened I see no real issues for grabbing pictures of her from her social media pages and creating a short explanatory video of her life using some freely available video creation software.

Stick to the facts you know to be true and have fun with it. Send me a copy, I could use a good laugh.
Good luck,

Shaming The Cheating Husband

Guy cheats on wife.
Guy leaves a note for her and the kids saying he’s leaving them.
He leaves.

Wife get’s her revenge by putting up posters with his name, address, birth date and photo along with details of his infidelity.

Good for her I say!

I admit that marriages have their difficulties. But before you seek solace and comfort in the arms of another you need to deal head-o with the issues within your own relationship. You can have the relationship you want to have, if you work at it.

Cheating Double-Timing Skirt-Chaser

Dear Revenge Guy
Dear Revenge Guy,
Dear Revenge Guy,
I met a guy in dec 2012 who literally pursued me by calling 10-15 times per day and send the love notes etc.

I asked him several times if he was seeing anyone and each time he would say “NO”, about a month after we were dating he asked to borrow $300 and not thinking twice I loan it to him.

Three months later I find out he was actively pursuing me and another woman. When I confronted him about it, he denies it but I was still uncomfortable so I asked her and she confirms my suspicion. He cried and said he was sorry and he didn’t mean it to happen and things are over between them.

Like an idiot I actually believed him and then a year later found out that there are a slew of women. I confronted him yet again only this time he resort to name calling and to say he really didn’t want to be with me and was just stringing me long. He was extremely verbally abusive. I am embarrass and angry.

I’ve thought of so many times to do and say. Please help me put it together to expose him and to get back at him.
Royally Pissed,

Hi RP,
There’s no doubt in my mind that this guy needs to be taught a lesson about respecting women, honesty and over-all how not to be a dink.

And I am sure he’s still doing what he did to you to many others. And I bet he still owes you the money too.

Personally I prefer the “out in the open, learn from my experience” lessons to share with everyone you meet that know this guy and/or might come into contact with him.

Maybe start with a few online ads in the “missed connections” sections detailing how you miss your money and you connected with the king of creeps.

If you know where he works, if he works, a few calls from a bill collector leaving him messages will work wonders towards fanning his reputation. Get yourself a disposable phone number and set the call display to whatever seems convincing.

If he drives a nice bumper sticker, with the wording of your choice, can also help to get you over the disgust you feel for being so taken advantage of.

I’d like to offer more but you haven’t given me too much to work with.

Best Wishes, The Revenge Guy
Best Wishes, The Revenge Guy
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