Every so often I come across a revenge story that you need to read. This revenge story, as the OP posted, details the issues the husband created by his wanting to cheat on her, and the extent that he deceived his now ex-wife and her very well thought-out revenge on him before they split up. While her initial revenge was thought up basically on the spot, the night she found out about his cheating, the follow-up revenge is genius.
The Revenge on the Ex Husband
The OP starts her story from the beginning of her relationship with her now ex husband.
After 8 years of what I thought was a healthy & loving relationship, I found out my (28M) husband had been living a double life in the entire relationship. I’ve made a post about the extent of his cheating, if you’d like to read it for some context, but basically our relationship has come to an end (he doesn’t want it to end but I deserve better so I’m ending things).
In the past, I would constantly take the “high-road” when I would find things out about him, forever being the bigger person, that was of course until he took it too far. I snapped. Below I have listed things I’ve done to “get back at him”.
The things the husband did that started the wife on her course of revenge.
He was trying his hardest to chat up girls and for the most part was getting rejected, no one wanted to meet up with him. That weekend I found out, I made a tinder and matched with a shit-ton of guys, literally handpicked a guy I wanted to fuck, told my husband what I was about to do, he watched me get all dolled up and walk out of the house, all it took was for me to send one message and I ended up fucking this tinder guy (33M) in the back of his work vehicle multiple times that night. I went home afterwards and told my husband what I did, to show him, that while he was out TRYING to cheat on me, i always had the power to, yet never did. All the things he wanted to do to other girls, men were wanting to do to me. That night I took pleasure in watching him cry, he lost his appetite and didn’t eat nor sleep that night and I could hear him a few times throwing up. I’ve slept with this tinder guy multiple times now and have gone on multiple dates. I’ve watched my husband almost have a panic attack or feel sick to his stomach when I say “I’m going out”.
1. I legally changed our kids’ names to my last name. Stripped him of the honour of having our kids share his last name. I saw his messages telling girls he didn’t have a wife and he didn’t have kids. I didn’t care about denying me but denying our beautiful children’s existence for pussy? fuck off. it’s also a double whammy seeing as I am giving birth to his first and only son soon who will carry on my last name. When he gets old and dies, none of his kids will have his last name nor will our legacy that is our grandchildren.
2. I talked him into getting a vasectomy, it was something we agreed on before the cheating came out because I was done with kids & birth control but since his cheating stuff came out, it’s been a case of revenge too. He was thinking about not getting it done saying “well your leaving me anyway”. Managed to talk him into it. I got a high when it was done, knowing that if he wanted to start a new family after us, I now have robbed him of ever being able to re-produce, plus with his lustful hunger, my kids won’t have to worry about having multiple half siblings running around. I’m done with having children but the fact I still can, is also like a “hah!’ moment.
3. Lastly, I’ve been feeding him false hope that were going to stay together. He knows that after 8 long years of me giving him chance after chance and him blowing it by constantly cheating, he KNOWS he’s reached the end so he is desperately wanting to do ANYTHING so I don’t leave. I’m going to talk him into getting my name tattooed on him, permanently marked on his body, simply because he’ll look like a complete idiot afterwards.
The whole relationship, he took me for granted, he was a narcissist, he’d gaslight me when I would get suspicious, he was a compulsive liar and serial cheater. I grew our children, I sacrificed so much time, energy and parts of myself for this man. Years of my life gone. He manipulated me into staying with him because he chose to live a double life. I know I look like a bitter bitch, but I had to get it out of my system.
The Final Word
Love starts with love but it doesn’t take much to turn love on its head. The OP really did get her revenge on her ex husband in this case and her life is much better now.