I’ll try to make this as short and as sweet as possible.
I dated a guy for 4 years, it was very serious. We were in love, I was even there for him when his mother passed away from cancer.
He’s a sweet guy, but after some time we decided it was best to take a break (my mother was in rehab and my grandmother was very sick). We had every intention of getting back together.
After about 2 weeks, he began getting insecure and we fought because of it. As a result we hadn’t spoken for another 2 weeks. A mutual “friend”, or ex-friend, hooked him up with her sister because he was “moping.”
They had sex, I found out, he begged for forgiveness, and I told him to suck it. As of right now we’re just beginning to talk again (as it will be almost a year). As for this girl, not only did she screw my boyfriend – I know I know, we were on a break- but she got a hold of my number and texted me DETAILED things they did together.
She also mentioned how he drove her to the airport (since she lives out of state) and held each other for hours. She has a son with someone else, she posted pics of her son and his “new daddy” on facebook -yep you guessed it, MY BOYFRIEND.
I called her one day, because I simply couldn’t sit by anymore, I just wanted her to leave me alone. She told me I’m nothing but a s*ut and I deserved to die. Even after my boyfriend called her himself to tell her off, she asked him if she was better than me in bed.
THIS IS SOMEONE WHO IS SUPPOSED TO BE A MOTHER.
Like I said, it’s been almost a year, I’ve been wrestling with myself to take the high road but I just can’t! I obsess over this girl to the point where it’s ruining my life.
Please help, I can’t let her win!
I don’t see you as the loser here at all. You have so-called friends that seem to choose him over you, without regard for the future you wanted with him.
Maybe you we’re clear with them but certainly he made choices that can’t be easily taken back now. As far as this girl goes, find out who else she has hurt and get together with these people. Someone that burns bridges often leaves a lot of wreckage and getting together to find out more will give you a great direction of how to best get your revenge.
Do your investigating and follow up with sharing her incredibly bad behavior with the world. Since your friends know what has happened I see no real issues for grabbing pictures of her from her social media pages and creating a short explanatory video of her life using some freely available video creation software.
Stick to the facts you know to be true and have fun with it. Send me a copy, I could use a good laugh.
Good luck, RG