If he can’t take the time to make dinner for his kids while his wife is working (even though she WFH), and stop being so selfish, he needs to talk with a marriage counselor before it’s too late (and he will need to look for woman number 4!)
Good for her for still feeding the kids but he needs to get his head out of his ass.
She is certainly not the asshole here!
And there’s this comment with more than 2.4k upvotes:
NTA but uhhhhh…. you have bigger issues in your marriage than takeout. You married someone who does not respect your work or your time, is willing to let his kids go hungry in order to force your hand, and is now using emotional blackmail to punish you. This is a fundamentally broken approach to relationships and it’s honestly not hard to see why he doesn’t have relationships with either of his kids’ mothers.